idaho, i hate you

i need somewhere to write and this place is as good as any. i feel safe here because no one really looks here for my words and yet they are still open for anyone to see. see; that way i'm not hiding or burying my feelings, my thoughts, my choices, or my words, but they are slightly hidden. a treasure for those who might wander this way or those who chose to remember they have a map.

i don't really know what to say. i just know that i need to write. i need to express how unhappy i am and how that makes me feel empty of gratitude. how after i realize how ungrateful i am because of my misery, then comes the guilt. the shame. i become ashamed of not feeling grateful for all the good i have in my life and not being content. how ugly is that? ugly enough to be ashamed. then comes the anger. anger and disgust for my showing a weakness. disgust for being human and conforming to what man is made of. for not rising above. how ugly! how ugly.

the last two days i have been unhappy. i miss utah. i am overwhelmed at not having family near. i hate that brandon and i can't be everything and do everything for our children. i hate it. i get angry at idaho like it has personally offended me by existing. like it swooped my family and me up into the air and held us captive to spend the rest of our days here in this remote town. frustration isn't a strong enough word. overwhelmed doesn't begin to hold the feelings that i have. i know i would find things to be unhappy about in utah if we lived there. i know things wouldn't be different but it doesn't keep me from blaming the one thing i can that won't take offense.

idaho. you took my mother away from me. you took my time with her. you took my easy life where i had help running my small tribe members to and fro. you took me out of my comfort zone. you took away my security. you took my mountains! idaho, i'm angry at you and i think i might despise you. you forced me to see things from a different view. you made me see that slowing down is good. you forced me to find a new way of learning for the little ones. you pushed me to find beauty in vast amounts of fields and open land. you forced a more laid back attitude upon me. and i hate that i don’t hate it as much as i want to. 

empty space

lonely heart
empty space.
how to fill
not replace.
memories?
sorrow?
trinkets?
tomorrow?

no.

lonely heart
empty space.
look for joy
sun to chase.

peace.

love.

service.

hugs.

yes.

lonely heart

empty space.

temporary pain

eternal place.

search.

follow.

remember.

no longer hollow.

songs.

i woke to a singing telegram over the monitor early this morning. it's always wonderful to hear the melody that has no melody and the words that are only vowels. and even though I would love to sleep in, i find the peace that comes with early morning baby songs wonderful. intoxicating. and it fills my heart with joyous love.

and it rained

water fell from the sky today.
and it rained.
someone dealt a hurtful surprise today.
and it rained.
tears fell from my eyes today.
and it rained.
took a breath as i stood outside today.
and it rained.
let the droplets cleanse my mind as I sighed today.
and it rained.
opened my eyes to see the beauty of trials today.
and it still rained.

a little rusty.

hello world wide web. it's been a while and i'm afraid i'm a little rusty. the thoughts were there but the drive to let them out hasn't been. so. we start a new. we scrape off that rust and work on expressing those thoughts in my mind that have been longing for a home instead of being forgotten and missed. *sigh* lets see if this will help me to create small masterpieces again.

pastels

the artist who colored the sky with pastels this afternoon must have been in a mood. he used his thumb to smear the clouds a couple times too many.

the land of nod

while spending a rare, yet cherished time rocking my 20 month old baby, we were exchanging nods without speaking as if he could hear my love for him and i could hear his thoughts of love for me. nods of agreement that this was a wonderful moment in time. nods of understanding that neither of us should break the silent spell. nods of appreciation that fate or destiny had a hand in putting us in a room together undisturbed for blissful bonding.